ok, by basically writing this post, i think some of u might 1 2 curse me n call me a bitch, but i m far from caring anymore. we only have like 1 more month left before we r going 2 leave school, so why 1 2 destroy our friendship right now? is it true that people will only treasure what they have when they lost it? pls lah, look around u n treasure what u have, pls don't wait until it is too late then regret.
THE FRIENDSHIP COMMANDMENTS:
1. thy shall not treat a friend like dirt one day when one is in bad mood, n pretend nothing had happened the next day. ur friend is also a human being. one time it happen, ppl think is bad mood. two times it happen, ppl think is pms. three times it happen, ur friend tried 2 ignore it, n pretend tt nothing happened. the more times it happened, ur friend may just think tt u aren't unappreciative of them bcos u treat them like a animal. pls lah, if like this, just go n buy a dog or a cat lah. they r easier 2 come by. u just go in any pet shop can liao.
2. thy should defend one's friend when other r criticizing him/her. thy should not join in the discussion n add oil 2 fire. even if u agree with what was said, just keep quiet. pls do not participate in the discussion.
3. thy should not contradict oneself: one moment u r cursing the person, n the next, u r treating him/her like he/she is god. other people will think u fake n that u r a two-faced person. n, like mrs tang had said, it make u a very unreliable source, n a very unreliable person.
4. thy should share one's problem with friends when one is facing trouble. thy should not keep all the problems to oneself. that is what friends are for. they are there 2 share ur problems n help u solve it. (of cos, if ur problem are the same for like about 500 years, ur friend may have already given up.) thy should not treat friend as a chu qi tong, bcos u r killing urself n friend at the same time. 1 minute of anger will shorten your life by 7 minutes. ur friend will be angry at u bcos u r mistreating him n giving him the attitude. pls lah, can't u do a good deed n save 2 lives?
5. even when one is angry about another person, one should also not pollute other person's mind. pls provide an objective view.
treasure what u have now. be appreciative. think about how u feel if u don't have them. think about how pathetic your life will be if u don't have them.
to tell the truth, i had never believed that friendship last forever in this world. friends are hard 2 come by. on the other hand, although u know that u will never become best friends with them, pls at least make sure that the time u 2 spent together are filled with happiness n laughter, not anger n back-stabbing.
FRIENDS ARE ALSO HUMAN TOO. PLS GIVE THEM THE DUE RESPECT THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO HAVE.
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